Having a plan and thinking ahead about ways to be safe if you are in a dangerous or would-be dangerous relationship can be helpful.

Here are some things to think about in creating your own safety plan.

• What adult can you talk to about violence and being safe?
• What people at school can you tell in order to be safe--teachers, principal, counselors, security?
• What friends can you tell to help you remain safe?
• If stranded, who could you call for a ride home?
• Where could you go quickly to get away from an abusive person?
• What can you do to keep safe at after school activities?
• What other things can you do?

What Else??

• Double date.  If that is not possible, plan dates for public places.
• Before leaving on a date, have exact plans.  Let a parent or friend know your plans.
• Be firm a straightforward in your relationships. 
• Know and be able to communicate your boundaries.
• Trust your instincts.