In a healthy relationship:

• Consent for sexual behavior is always verbally given
•  You feel free to say anything you want, and your thoughts are respected.
•  Feeling angry, hurt and upset is normal, but feeling scared, humiliated or controlled isn't. You should feel loved  
       and respected. You and your partner are equals.
• If you and your partner have a misunderstanding, both of you are able to work it out together. Communication is      important.
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In  unhealthy relationships:

• Blame you for anything bad that happens.
• Excessive jealousy.
• Abuse of others.
• Put you or others down and call others names.
• Frequent anger.
• Isolation from  friends and family.
• Pressure you to be sexual.
• Physical abuse.
• Ignoring or giving silent treatment.
• Always need to know whereabouts.
• Don’t listen or care about your opinions and feelings.
   

Do your homework:

• Are you afraid to break up with your partner?
• Do you feel tied down, like you have to always check-in?
• Are you afraid to make decisions or bring up certain topics?
• Do you tell yourself if you just try harder everything will be fine?
• Are you depressed, unhappy or cry a lot?
• Is the emotional or physical abuse getting worse?